Harrassment.

I went to lodge a police report today. 

Remember this post on forumers being freaks?

Well let's just say tt i kinda figured out tt B the person who put up the appraisal for me, seems to b solely responsible for the whole W person thing.

B started to SMS me for every little thing n anything not regarding my grooming services.

And when i refuse to reply after 8pm jus cos i dun want to, she starts to send more SMses, which is bloody damn annoying.

"R u sleeping or having fun with yr dog?"

K**, that is none of yr biz!

Im a service provider, not a friend n i dun wan to talk to u about my life. Nor bout yours.

N i made it clear to her time n time n time again tt i do not want to reply to queries other than appointment requests outside my work hours. N she STILL sends me boliao requests n SMSes.

The last straw came when using the same number, B suddenly became A, who claimed to b B's sis-in-law n who claims tt B got so distraught by me when i said tt i do not want to correspond w her cos i have a bf who does not like me to b disturbed outside work hrs, tt B went n got herself into car accident.

This A, using B's hp number, went on to threaten tt her husband is a police officer n 'CID' at an east branch police station n told me to befriend B n get to know her better. n started to send me SMS into the wee hours of the night.

Bloody annoying n scary to the point when i had to fearfully scan the other pax faces on the bus home this evening in case i see B stalking me home.

N then when I mentioned the L word ("im not lesbian n etc etc) J, the police officer n i figured supposedly to b B's brother, came into the picture. SMS sent thru B's number also.

Threatening me to not hurt(huh?) B n challenging me when i said i will b making a police report for harassment. 

Also he claimed to track down my so called bf's number n send PI to my bf. 

Huh? Hello? 

B. R u 17 or 37?? (which is how old u look to me babe _|_ )

CID. PI.

Oh god. u still in the age of Triple 9 with Wong Lilin n James Lye ah?

Well, all that's happening is this.

M gonna fax M1 morrow. with the timing of the private number nuisance calls n SMSes n my police report.

If her mobile is a contracted line n not a prepaid one, i hope she will receive the warning letter M1 says they will send out. Private number line shld b a land line i hope.

Whichever, I have yr address B. 

N the police r investigating cos on yr side u claim to be(have someone) who is working on the side of the law as well.

Impersonation. n possible assault.

Carry this on further n i will not hesitate to press charges n get one of those 10m away from me injunction. Cos u r creepy n scary n stalker-ish.

ARgh.

Thinking bout it makes my hair stand.

N I chewed my nails down to stumps. 

Why this kinda stupid things happen to me one!?

Bestie says im too friendly.

Ah duh?? It's customer service!! I NEED to b friendly! But im not yr friend! -_-"

Let's hope she gets it this time.

Dreams Can Come True.

No one will ever see what i envision in my head.

The interiors of the shop.

The concept.

The workings......

i guess if my chosen ideal partners dun come thru i might have to do it on my own one fine day.

I wish ppl will stop telling me that it won't work.

Cos i think if i dare to come out n do it, it will.

So yeah, i stopped flying to b a doggie groomer.

Everybody who asks gives me The Look.

Any editor wanna feature me in magazines?

Topic can b change in career; the big jump. Or flying groomer. wahahahha~

Okie. wait til i make it bigger first. ;p

And stupid Pig, stop telling me tt my dog is holding me back.

It's not. He's keeping me grounded.

But i'll take into account what u said "People who r over relationships DUN feel a single thing."

Ok. GOT IT *dead pan voice n face* tt i will work on. _|_

Forummers r potential Stalkers..

Today i wanted to pull my hair out.

I was fucking annoyed can!?! Now i thinking wanna get another mobile number for privacy.  knnbccb.

So a kind customer of mine had go ahead n put up an appraisal for me after grooming her dog beginning of july.

N she has since went on n posted it on lioney.sg as well. Which somehow links u to 10 other sites or so.

I really dunno how these things works really.

The response after tt was good. i received 2 sms requests for appointments yesterday.

1 Of which was from a dude who claimed tt he was mute n asked me to email him cos he wanted to specify how he like his dog to b groomed.

As i was out, i promptly used my Professonal mail acct to email him on my iPhone n had since been waiting for his reply. Let's call this person W.

Who knows the next day i received this, from the kind person who posted up my appraisal for me, let's call her B.

B:"D, did u receive SMS from a potential customer named as W? tis person claim tt he sms u n ask u to email him but he said u didnt reply 2 him as he's mute person n has difficulty in talking n listening. he puts up a remark in my adv n i manage to catch hold of him n i hv emailed 2 him instead. his remark was taken away by me becos this a small matter n jus comm breakdown.

D: " yar i reply him ready!! Cos he sms me by Bulk SMS. cannot reply to it wat. wait i cc u the mail also."

I went to my sent folder for tt acct in my iphone n it seemed like the email was not sent.

So i sent it again n once again the email completely vanished into thin air once i hit the sent button.

B: " did u send to correct email.jus console him tt we didn't look down on him jus becos he's mute"

D: "yar lor he was complaining to me tt u shld have put email add n i explained tt u did not put cos of possible restrictions on the forum."

B: "i've apologised to him ready n so jus stay cool

D: "actually i wanted to ask u yesterday if i can reply straight to Bulk SMS not! haha then his following text got his email add so i emailed him instead. Curious also, mute ppl got carry handphone also rite? Good for communication mah? Oh well. Sorry to put u thru the trauma B. Aiyoh. this is a classic case of reverse discrimination!!"

B: "well our friend do hv hp bt he uses hi-card n hav 2 top up b4 he can sms. its why he uses bulk sms........"etc

And then i managed to delete n reinstate my email add which was not able to send out emails on my iphone n managed to get it to work.

Mute guy W replied, n replied... n REPLIED. until my iphone from 40% batt to 17%.

N the worst thing is, he kept sending me thru his fucked up Bulk SMS! Which i can't reply to!! n i have to fuckin email him!! u know how fucking annoying tt is?!!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!? FUCK U W!

I DUN WANNA GROOM YOUR DOG! IT"S NOT BECOS U R MUTE! ITS BECOS U KEEP USING THE EXCUSE TT U R MUTE FOR ANYTHING N EVERYTHING!!!!

if u guys dun believe me, below is a series of our very cumbersome correspondence...

D: "Dear W,

This is my 3rd attempt to send u an email. I apologise for the miscommunication n have been in fact been waiting for yr reply since my first email sent out to u around 630pm yesterday evening.

The second being 4pm this afternoon after Del's owner notified me about your response.
Now I have rectified the error in my iPhone settings as I m at out at work with no access to email thru a desktop.

I do hope u receive this.
In my email, I explained that Del's owner might have left out my email add perhaps because of certain restrictions on the forum.

Anyway, I will also try to adhere to yr specifications n instructions as much as I can as I had done with Del. My hours r from 11-7pm daily except I'm off on Thursdays. Rates r 55 for small dogs like Maltese n there is 10% off for first time customers n members of XXX pets. To b member of XXX pets, simply accumulate $150 worth in receipts within 2 months. ;) 

I do hope to hear from u soon n I sincerely apologise for the delay in this correspondence due to this technical glitch.
Thank u for your time."

Cheebye W thru his fucked up Bulk SMS: 

1) "hi. got yr reply. i hv a word w B jus now n i'll do what she suggest. im glad she's yr fren cos she's good in her presentation : via BulkSMS.com"

2) She has say sory to me bt it's not her fault she's jus sensible enough how to answer my question wifout avoiding me when i told her tt i'm MUTE : via BulkSMs.com"

CCB!! MUTE MUST TYPE CAPITAL LETTERS MEH!!??!?! N WTF U IMPLYING??? TT I M NOT SENSIBLE ENOUGH TO ANSWER YR QUESTIONS N I WAS AVOIDING U COS U SAID U R MUTE?!?!?! WTF IS TT??!?!

My email reply to him:

"Dear W,

I'm sorry if u felt tt I was avoiding you but I really did reply as soon as I got yr text except I din know if bulk SMS accepts SMS replies. Well I tried again now n I cant get it to go thru.

So would u like to make an appt still n when would u like it to b? Mayb u would like to leave a mobile number cos I believe that prepaid sim cards allow unlimited SMS replies ?

Thank u"

Can someone out there tell me why my baby sister's starhub card can send n receive unlimited sms. but this cheebye gotta give this kind of lame excuse??

Then the Cheebye W again:

1) She has say sory to me bt it's not her fault she's jus sensible enough how to answer my question wifout avoiding me when i told her tt i'm MUTE : via BulkSMs.com" -this is repeated jus so u know -_-

2) I hvnt met her bt i hv a gd feeling 4 her. Very tactful in talking. no doubt, im mute bt i do hv feeling. Shall i chase after B? :via BulkSMS.com  

KNNBCCB!!!! NOBODY EVER SAY TO U MUTE= NO FEELING RITE?!? Y R U ASSUMING PPLE SAY THIS BOUT U?? CLASSIC CASE OF REVERSE DISCRIMINATION NO??!?

N HE SEEMS TO HAVE AN INFLATED EGO DESPITE A SERIOUS SELF ESTEEM ISSUE WHICH IS UNDERSTANDABLE BUT WTF!!!

And becos by now i feel obliged to reply becos WHY? cos Mute ppl Like this W make pple feel guilty when their messages r not replied by saying u purposely ignore them cos they mute.

CAN I JUS IGNORE U COS U R FUCKING LAME!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!? IF I SEE U I WILL PUNCH U!

I DUN WANNA GROOM YR DOG!!!!! SCREAMMMMSSSSSS*

D: "Dear W,

Yes B is an extremely nice lady with very enthusiastic interest in pets n pet knowledge.

In the mean time, I need to go as my mobile is outta battery. U know how lousy iPhone battery lives r.

Do keep in touch. Thank u."

W: Well 2bad i dun hv her hp no. i'll get my hp top up 1st then i'll make an appt wif u 4 u to groom my poodle. Let Belle noes abt my feeling for her :via BulkSMS.com

D: "Dear W,
Yes I have conveyed them to her.

Cheers in yr endeavour."    *major bitch fit by this time*

W:

1) i'm a manager in a co. bt i hv no problem wif all my juniors bcos they noe wht 2 do. My life's very healthy bcos i only hv my poodle wif me: viz BulkSMS.com

2)D, do u have any idea wht's she dislike, character wise?! I shld hv ask her bt it's 2 late cos i don't hv her contact anymore. Jus do me a favor :via BulkSMS.com

3)D, ask Belle whether she'll b able 2 reply 2 my email as i really tink she is the RIGHT LADY tt im looking 4 unless she reject me. :via BulkSMs.com

HELLO W! I DUN THINK MUTE PPL R STUPID RIGHT??!?! IM A GROOMER! NOT YR PERSONAL MATCHMAKER!! CAN U PLS JUS FUCK OFF!?? 

After charging my phone n having finished my dinner, which was interrupted by his incessant KNN BulkSMS-ing*FUCK U VERY MUCH!!* n walked my dog n all n going to a meeting, i wrote to him this. N i think i sounded very very polite n diplomatic.

"Dear W,

I have not met u before and I'm sure u r a nice guy.
Therefore I just wanna keep this strictly professional and pls only contact me for dog grooming services.
For anything else personal, am sure u have B's email address.

Pls understand tt I'm not avoiding u or watsoever reason. But having to work 6 day weeks including public holidays n weekends n  watever time left for myself n my dog is very very very limited.
I hope u really understand. That from now onwards, I will only answer yr queries on dog grooming services.

Thank you."

W:  1) "D i got yr sms. im sory as i hv been carry away by myself nobody'll like to b friend who's mute. i'll not keep hunting u for B's hp :via BulkSMS.com"

2) D, jus 1 last request, pls get B to email me as i lost her email as my whole harddisk's corrupted n most of the info r gone. thks!"

ONCE AGAIN FUCK U W! PPLE LIKE TO BE FRENZ WITH PPLE WHO DUN MAKE THEM FEEL OBLIGED TO BE FRIENDS WITH THEM!  N NOT BECOS U R MUTE, BALD, HAVE LEPROSY, OR ONLY ONE TESTICLE OR WATEVER NONSENSE.

YR ATTITUDE BOUT YR OWN CONDITION IS THE ONLY REASON WHY NOBODY WANTS TO B FRENZ WITH U. NOT YR CONDITION PER SE. OK???

U WANNA SEE A SHRINK OR A COUNSELLOR INSTEAD?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?

N in between handling this bugger's incessant fuck shit, B is constantly bugging me as well.

She asked me to add her to myspace but i seriously cant b bothered okie!

N she say if i go her myspace i'll know why she wanna reject W.

Cos she lesbian lar!!!! WTF!

SHE IS OBSESSED WITH ME N HE IS OBSESSED WITH HER N BOTH THEM R BOMBING MY MOBILE PHONE. JUS STOP IT CANNNNNNNN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

N never mind? This W loser is using some BLOCKED number n calling my hp n putting down the phone on me as !! CwellHEEBYE LAR! if i do see u i will skin u n yr poodle down. MUTE MUTE MUTE FUCKING ANNOYING CAN!?!?!?!? PLS DUN TELL ME ALL MUTE PPL R LIKE TT? OR WORSE STILL, Y U DUN HAVE OTHER MUTE FRENZ TOO???? 

WELL OBVIOUS ANSWER HUH?! COS U R NOT LIKABLE AT ALL LAR! 

OMG if this continues on i'm gonna jus change my number or something. regret now giving my personal number away so easily.

WHAT THE FUCKING FUCK THIS SHIT IS MAN. KNNBCCB.

I seriously wanna scream whenever i receive SMS from either of THEM!!!!